Jeff asked us to share what we would like to do as a group to enter in to the hells on earth...my first thought was how cool it would be if our MC sponsored a child.
I am not sure how many people are in our MC total, but if we sponsored a child through World Vision, it would cost each individual or couple no more than $2 a month. If extra is given, we could use it to give that child extra gifts. Everyone could write letters and bring photos occasionally to MC and I could mail them.
Alternatively, if we want to we could sponsor a child through Make Way Partners. Those are children in orphanages in Sudan...in Darfur, in the currently-being-bombed Nuba mountains. Those full sponsorships are more...$115, I think. I will bring picture folders and information on Thursday.
Kim
Wednesday, December 5, 2012
Wednesday, May 9, 2012
Dead Last
I posted this on my blog, minus a paragraph I didn't feel completely free posting for all of my readers. If you already read this on my blog you can jump down to the highlighted paragraph.
So in 7th grade I remember we had to do some Fitness Test that included running a mile. Being the ever chubby girl (which now I look back and realize it wasn't that I was chubby it was just that I wasn't as stick thin as the other girls.) my goal was to NOT come in last, because that would be too embarrassing. (Thank God for Bill, the chubby boy who always came in last.) As I ran up the gravel hill of our small Christian school I distinctly remember thinking that I was going to die or that my lungs must be bleeding inside. I hated every second of that run! The only thing that kept me going was refusing to come in after Bill. My fondness for running has not changed much. I have had brief moments of wanting to run. To love the feeling of being able to run and pound out the stresses of life but a love of running has never developed.
In fact a few weeks ago I was thrilled to be able to WALK two miles in 35 minutes. Not run but walk! I am so out of shape (well, I have a shape but it's not the one I want) that I am celebrating walking! I have a long way to go. But anyway, a friend (an awesome friend who happens to be a personal trainer and has set me on the right track) told me and our church about a charity 5K for the Crisis Pregnancy Center and invited us all to participate. Now, they also had a 1K Walk but for some reason I thought I could handle walking the 5K. Which I know I could have....walked it that is.
So the race begins and a sweet friend who has promised to stay by my side the whole way starts off running with everyone and I'm like ok here we go. Within seconds, everyone is gone except for a few of us stragglers. Then slowly even other stragglers are getting farther and farther away from us. Dads pushing strollers who started after us have now passed us and I realize....Crap! I am going to have to run this thing! My thought going into this was that I would just walk it but no, I was going to have to run.
And run I did. I whined the entire first mile. Convinced that they had forgotten to mark the first mile. Declared that Lent sucks several times. Wondered what the hell I was doing out there and trying to figure out how to get out of this. I got angry when I saw my marathon running friend heading back in the opposite direction before I was even halfway finished...after all, somehow this was all his fault. Around mile 2 I looked at my friend and told her not to mind me as I was was about to have an emotional spiritual moment. It was then that I began crying (although no actual tears came out as I was sweating so much and desperate for a drink of water I was all out of juice.) Crying because I wanted to quit so badly but I knew I couldn't. I realized that worse than coming in last was not finishing at all. I knew that my family- not just Rob and the kids but Da Funk would be waiting for me. I realized that even though I did not believe in myself they believed in me and I could not quit! I began praying and rehearsing in my mind the things Father God had spoken to me during Lent. How He called me to a healthier freer life. A life richer and bigger than I could imagine.
My sister and I have a joke about the fact that she can never live up to my parents' expectations and the fact that I can't ever fail because they have no expectations of me. We tease each other about not knowing which is worse. The bar was never set high for me. I didn't have many options laid out before me other than ministry. I have had to come to a place of forgiving my parents for limiting my future and be thankful for the opportunities I have had. But I realized as I ran that I had to finish because my family, my Da Funk family, expected me to. They believed I could do this and that was what carried me on. This dieting and exercising is about WAY much more than my body and so much more about becoming free from low expectations and walking into the life I was designed to live.
So, off we ran. I eventually told my friend to go on without me. I knew I was holding her back and I hated that. She ran on, but never so far off that I couldn't catch up. The second half of the second mile I heard a noise behind me and I realized it was the police car slowly following me as I was so far behind everyone he was wrapping things up. I have to admit the thought of keeping all those police officers out there longer than necessary made me run faster.... plus I was slightly afraid he would accidentally run me over.
As we came up on mile 3 my friend waited for me as we came upon the man with the bullhorn announcing that everyone was waiting for us. (Was that supposed to be helpful?!) So I dug deep and I ran the last bit where I was joined first by my husband and kids and then by my two accountability partners who cheered and ran with me across the first of many finish lines.
I did it. I didn't quit.
Dead last is better than never starting at all, right?
So in 7th grade I remember we had to do some Fitness Test that included running a mile. Being the ever chubby girl (which now I look back and realize it wasn't that I was chubby it was just that I wasn't as stick thin as the other girls.) my goal was to NOT come in last, because that would be too embarrassing. (Thank God for Bill, the chubby boy who always came in last.) As I ran up the gravel hill of our small Christian school I distinctly remember thinking that I was going to die or that my lungs must be bleeding inside. I hated every second of that run! The only thing that kept me going was refusing to come in after Bill. My fondness for running has not changed much. I have had brief moments of wanting to run. To love the feeling of being able to run and pound out the stresses of life but a love of running has never developed.
In fact a few weeks ago I was thrilled to be able to WALK two miles in 35 minutes. Not run but walk! I am so out of shape (well, I have a shape but it's not the one I want) that I am celebrating walking! I have a long way to go. But anyway, a friend (an awesome friend who happens to be a personal trainer and has set me on the right track) told me and our church about a charity 5K for the Crisis Pregnancy Center and invited us all to participate. Now, they also had a 1K Walk but for some reason I thought I could handle walking the 5K. Which I know I could have....walked it that is.
So the race begins and a sweet friend who has promised to stay by my side the whole way starts off running with everyone and I'm like ok here we go. Within seconds, everyone is gone except for a few of us stragglers. Then slowly even other stragglers are getting farther and farther away from us. Dads pushing strollers who started after us have now passed us and I realize....Crap! I am going to have to run this thing! My thought going into this was that I would just walk it but no, I was going to have to run.
And run I did. I whined the entire first mile. Convinced that they had forgotten to mark the first mile. Declared that Lent sucks several times. Wondered what the hell I was doing out there and trying to figure out how to get out of this. I got angry when I saw my marathon running friend heading back in the opposite direction before I was even halfway finished...after all, somehow this was all his fault. Around mile 2 I looked at my friend and told her not to mind me as I was was about to have an emotional spiritual moment. It was then that I began crying (although no actual tears came out as I was sweating so much and desperate for a drink of water I was all out of juice.) Crying because I wanted to quit so badly but I knew I couldn't. I realized that worse than coming in last was not finishing at all. I knew that my family- not just Rob and the kids but Da Funk would be waiting for me. I realized that even though I did not believe in myself they believed in me and I could not quit! I began praying and rehearsing in my mind the things Father God had spoken to me during Lent. How He called me to a healthier freer life. A life richer and bigger than I could imagine.
My sister and I have a joke about the fact that she can never live up to my parents' expectations and the fact that I can't ever fail because they have no expectations of me. We tease each other about not knowing which is worse. The bar was never set high for me. I didn't have many options laid out before me other than ministry. I have had to come to a place of forgiving my parents for limiting my future and be thankful for the opportunities I have had. But I realized as I ran that I had to finish because my family, my Da Funk family, expected me to. They believed I could do this and that was what carried me on. This dieting and exercising is about WAY much more than my body and so much more about becoming free from low expectations and walking into the life I was designed to live.
So, off we ran. I eventually told my friend to go on without me. I knew I was holding her back and I hated that. She ran on, but never so far off that I couldn't catch up. The second half of the second mile I heard a noise behind me and I realized it was the police car slowly following me as I was so far behind everyone he was wrapping things up. I have to admit the thought of keeping all those police officers out there longer than necessary made me run faster.... plus I was slightly afraid he would accidentally run me over.
As we came up on mile 3 my friend waited for me as we came upon the man with the bullhorn announcing that everyone was waiting for us. (Was that supposed to be helpful?!) So I dug deep and I ran the last bit where I was joined first by my husband and kids and then by my two accountability partners who cheered and ran with me across the first of many finish lines.
I did it. I didn't quit.
Dead last is better than never starting at all, right?
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| Ecclesia Clear Lake had a great showing! |
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| These friends keep me on track! |
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| The dads who passed us up very early on! |
Support team
Monday, April 30, 2012
Wednesday, February 22, 2012
Ash Wednesday
Today I am trying a bread and water fast. I thought this would be fairly easy...much easier than a no food at all fast....but I am reminded of how spoiled I am. Even with yummy bread - two varieties, no less...I am hungry and find myself thinking about food a lot! I even wondered if there is a local bakery with breads...lol! I am so thankful for the great food I have, and hopeful about helping others who have little or no food.
I hope that this day is going well for all of you. I am so happy to be in community with all of you.
I hope that this day is going well for all of you. I am so happy to be in community with all of you.
Hebrews 12
1 Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, 2 fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. 3 Consider him who endured such opposition from sinners, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart.
Love you guys and gals!
Kim
Love you guys and gals!
Kim
Monday, January 30, 2012
A New Scenario
So when you are overly sentimental and prone to being morbid you have crazy thoughts. Then when you believe something and your #1 Yelo trait is Belief and Communication is right up there, you feel the need to express things and be sure people know where you stand. So thus, this post.....
Back when Rob was sick I began a habit of developing a back up plan of sorts in case....well you know...in case he died. It has included going back to school and where would I live and now how would I raise my kids. When I have imagined these scenarios it has always been me and my family and how I would desperately depend on them to help me breathe again.
I don't have these thoughts near as often anymore and you would think that after 10 1/2 years of health I would get over it, but there are things that are hard to shake. So recently I was having a moment of morbidness and all of a sudden I realized that the scenario had changed. No longer did I feel alone and dependant on my family alone. I realized that my kids would have a community full of men who know what it means to be fathers to the fatherless. I would be surrounded by women who know how to encourage and who know how to wipe tears away. I realized that I would not be alone and my world would not end and that makes me feel incredibly proud and in love with our community.
People try to describe community but words can not do it justice. It's another of Father God's great mysteries. When you give yourself over to relationship with others and allow others to give in return, it is a rich and tangible experience of God's love for us and I am so thankful for you.
Back when Rob was sick I began a habit of developing a back up plan of sorts in case....well you know...in case he died. It has included going back to school and where would I live and now how would I raise my kids. When I have imagined these scenarios it has always been me and my family and how I would desperately depend on them to help me breathe again.
I don't have these thoughts near as often anymore and you would think that after 10 1/2 years of health I would get over it, but there are things that are hard to shake. So recently I was having a moment of morbidness and all of a sudden I realized that the scenario had changed. No longer did I feel alone and dependant on my family alone. I realized that my kids would have a community full of men who know what it means to be fathers to the fatherless. I would be surrounded by women who know how to encourage and who know how to wipe tears away. I realized that I would not be alone and my world would not end and that makes me feel incredibly proud and in love with our community.
People try to describe community but words can not do it justice. It's another of Father God's great mysteries. When you give yourself over to relationship with others and allow others to give in return, it is a rich and tangible experience of God's love for us and I am so thankful for you.
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The first on my list was with an ex-girlfriend. Even though we're seeemingly on good terms, I still felt so fearful and worried about how it would turn out. I carry index cards with the following information: a plus or minus sign in the top right corner representing how willing I am to make the amends. At the top it says, "I cannot stay sober if I don't straighten things out with you." Under that is the name of the person. Under that is written exactly how I've harmed the person. Following those are the questions, "Is there anything else I've done to cause you harm?" and "Is there anything I can do to make this right?" I admitted my wrongs and the person said they didn't know how to respond. I was okay with that. My side of the street was finally clean. But then they asked, "Will you tell me how I've hurt you?" That is a trap question. I did not answer that one because this is about admitting my wrongs, not theirs. I diplomatically explained that I could not do that. We left on good terms, and I feel that the blockage that was between us has disappeared. Thanks God.
My second amends happened with my boss, someone I have gossiped and complained about for quite some time. I've given my co-workers reason to not like this person, to think this person is evil. I've disrespected this person's authority by not doing what they've asked me to do. When I saw the person, I asked them to join me in the office, and I explained to them how I cannot stay sober if I don't straighten things out with you. I told them specifically how I've gossiped and complained, and asked if there was anything I could do to make it right. The person said, "Nope. You're good." We hugged and left the office. I've had no trouble respecting this person since. Thanks God.
The third amends happened tonight with a group I recently started meeting with on Sunday nights after church. Two weeks ago, we ran into a situation where I believed much differently than they did. I felt like I was being cornered. I felt attacked. In response, I attacked and spoke over them. I didn't listen to what they had to say, but got angry and judgmental and disrupted the harmony of the group. The meeting ended prematurely because of it. I felt like a victim, like I was being persecuted. This sort of thing happens more often than not. Needless to say, I don't believe God wants me to be angry and He wants me to let other people be entitled to believe what they want. I went back tonight, and we had a cookout. Towards the end, we were all sitting around talking about the sad state of the church, and I told everyone I had something to get off my chest. I said, "I was wrong two weeks ago. I got angry and defensive and disrupted the harmony of the group." I went on to explain how I've struggled for a long time letting other people be entitled to believe what they want, not what I would have them believe. After all, I'm not God or the Spirit. They received my amends well. I came into this group with the intention of diving into the Scriptures with a very knowledgeable teacher. I know now that I'm in this to practice the art of restraining the tongue when I feel opposed. Thanks God.
Ya'll are awesome. How do I read your stories? I'll have more after this week. Wish me luck!